Re: My comming out.
If you don't come out fully, how will you ever get laid?
Maybe a bit shallow, if you prefer it I can say "enter into a relationship" but the point is the same. Unless you let everyone know who you are then you can never do the things that will really make you happy. I'm sure telling your parents will be difficult, but however close minded they are I am sure they will come round to it eventually. You are still their child and they will love you all the same. Try to take the long term view even if it will be difficult in the short term.
I will admit, this is easy for me to say, I'm a middle class straight white male who has never experimented with drugs or caught an STD.
God my life is boring, I'm turning gay!