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If you don't come out fully, how will you ever get laid?

Maybe a bit shallow, if you prefer it I can say "enter into a relationship" but the point is the same. Unless you let everyone know who you are then you can never do the things that will really make you happy. I'm sure telling your parents will be difficult, but however close minded they are I am sure they will come round to it eventually. You are still their child and they will love you all the same. Try to take the long term view even if it will be difficult in the short term.

I will admit, this is easy for me to say, I'm a middle class straight white male who has never experimented with drugs or caught an STD.

God my life is boring, I'm turning gay!

tweehonderd graden, dat is waarom ze me mr. fahrenheit noemen, ik reis aan de snelheid van het licht, ik ga een supersonische man van u maken

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johnwayne, get your mind into this century and stop believing bullshit statistics like the one you named.
Morale is how you treat other people in my opinion, and he's doing a way better job at it than you.
Cause he *accepts* other people, while you judge them. If people like CT or me are wicked and depraved in your eyes, then I hope you burn in the deepest pits of hell for your blind intolerance ^^

I'll never know if it was worth the pain, but I still loved it more than anything in the world - it was my life.

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my 7th sense " i see gay ppl"  so i knew you where gay all along ct big_smile..bumsex! no offence..tell your parents!

Airwing

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*sexors CT

The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones that do.
If Not For The Gutter... My Mind Would Be Homeless......yikes
ummmmm..... lemming soup!
big_smile yikes tongue  neutral  wink   hmm

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John Wayne was gay smile

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johnwayne, I accept that you don't except homosexuality because it's a sin, but think about it. Who wrote on paper that homosexuality was a sin? Elderly businessmen (oops, I mean priests) who died over 1500 years ago. Don't you find it knid of suspicious that only ONE book has survived from that era of human history?

As for 60% only live to be 40 or 50, I would like to see where your getting those statistics. I know the death rate is higher for that demographic, but I think 60% is way off.

"If you don't come out fully, how will you ever get laid?"
-That tortues me every minute of everyday!! So I generally just stalk guys on facebook using the Uni network to try and not think about it.. lol, pathetic I know.

Lloyd? Are you gay as well? I'm just judging that by your comment you just made. Only, I thought Lateras -and maybe Primo because of the sheer amount of jokes directed at him- were the only opning gay people in the IC community.

/me sexors Llama back *WOOT*

"In a world of global deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act." George Orwell

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Even if John Waynes idiotic statistic is true Homosexuals enjoy better standards of living and also tend to be richer.
I don't know why.
Oh, and welcome to the club.... ish.... Can I say that if I'm "only" bisexual?

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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[RPA] Lloyd List = Eltara? That's what I always thought. (prepares to face the truth =P).

~K

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w00t

orgy!!

*takes of his toga

The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones that do.
If Not For The Gutter... My Mind Would Be Homeless......yikes
ummmmm..... lemming soup!
big_smile yikes tongue  neutral  wink   hmm

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did you know that 90% of all the people that throw around statistics are dead wrong!

NEE NAW NEE NAW

Primo

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Yeah right Primo tongue.

And 98.8% of males have or will engage in masturbation tongue.

Morbo: Morbo can't understand his teleprompter. He forgot how you say that letter that looks like a man with a hat.
Linda: It's a 't'. It goes "tuh".
Morbo: Hello, little man. I will destroy you!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpP7b2lUxVE

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73% of statistics are made up on the spot

Got a few bucks?  The Imperial Tip Jar is accepting contributions!

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Dreadfully poor taste, I know, but you can't have a coming out without a party!
Pink Gin anyone?

frankie goes to hollywood: relax
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPLrXFw76Qg

Electric Six: Gay Bar
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q54LJ5RsqRw

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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One that's not likely to be blocked:

sin with sebastian - shut up (and sleep with me)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4upn3M4jtQY

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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Guess whos been waiting for an exuse to spam IC with questionable videos?

Samwell - "What What (In the Butt)"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

I'm done, I promise.

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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"Guess whos been waiting for an exuse to spam IC with questionable videos?"

Glad I could be of help Fokker... I'll take a glass of that Gin if you don't mind wink

BTW, you have the best questionable videos lmao. The one with Abe Lincoln has to be the best!

"In a world of global deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act." George Orwell

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CanadianTire, congratz yea nice one but dont tell your parents in the car they may crash and yea total the car in shock tongue, i have a freind at work whos gay, he came out to his parents and yea they hated it for tthe first months but realised its still him, the same person and now they dont mind. Im a straight male and why would i stoop as low as to Judge anyone on their own lives!.

My gay freind at work has been asking for everybody's support on a site called www.bloodban.co.uk, basically gay men are banned from giving blood because they may have a higher chance of having aids with them both being men, but its the most stupid and idiotic rule ever, all blood is screened and that extra blood would save lives!
Just thought id add my gay freinds petition here aswell, coming out for you is great yea dont hide it, take it easy.

Conquer your fear, and I promise you, you will conquer death!

MARK THE MIGHTY ~ System Lord Anubis ~ Poseidon

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"Lloyd? Are you gay as well? I'm just judging that by your comment you just made. Only, I thought Lateras -and maybe Primo because of the sheer amount of jokes directed at him- were the only opning gay people in the IC community."

I'm bisexual tongue

I'll never know if it was worth the pain, but I still loved it more than anything in the world - it was my life.

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"well you are wrong muncher we are not all bi, it has to do with all the wickedness and depravity in the world, homosexuality is a sin ,because GOD say it is, it is an abomination unto the LORD, i do not hate CT but i cannot and will accept his life style, for it is wrong and only brings death to the soul and emotions, it goes against everything that is morale, did you  guys and girls know that 60 % of homosexuals only to be in their late 40's early 50's, their death rate is triple national standards."

We all are. Ever heard about a Gauss-curve? If not, the link is at the bottom of this post. Biologists and psychologists quite agree that it's applicable on sexuality as well. On one end you have a very small group of extreme heterosexuals and on the other end a small group of extreme homosexuals, but most of us are right in the middle of it..
Figures don't say anything, on their own. Did you know that more people drown when more icecream is sold? There's a strong correlation between those two, but one is not the cause of the other (in fact it's because it's summer then).

Besides, you love god, isn't that a bit homosexual too? (To be exact, there is a psychological study going on about that tongue)



http://www.uiah.fi/projects/metodi/gauss.gif

God: Behold ye angels, I have created the ass.. Throughout the ages to come men and women shall grab hold of these and shout my name...

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The research is about wether the typical view that god's a man, is a subliminal utterance of this homosexual feelings we all have, or not Elrohir wink

God: Behold ye angels, I have created the ass.. Throughout the ages to come men and women shall grab hold of these and shout my name...

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johnwayne, that last thing makes no sense at all. Please proove it.

And to add to that, GOD says what we want him to say.

Not many people know this, but I own the first radio in Springfield. Not much on the air then, just Edison reciting the alphabet over and over. "A" he'd say; then "B." "C" would usually follow...

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johnwayne,

There are far worse 'abominations' in the world to be worrying about than 2 people, who just happen to be of the same gender, loving one another. Lightly using such a strong, hateful word does such injustice to the true abominations that God hates, so grow up and get a bit of perspective on things.

[i]Tommy gun

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CT Grats on coming out... lets hope 90% of the IC community follows your admirable example now wink

On the telling your parents part... the time, decide it yourself... the place... make it a place where you can all get some time by yourselves afterwards...dont trap people in uncomfortable situations...they dont like that.

After you told em, give em time and space to deal with the idea. Allthough they may have suspected it, it is now confirmed... change of status quo. Arrange with a friend or something that you can sleep over for a week if needed... more than a week will probably not be needed, but anyways...its good to have a back-up plan.

Once again...congrats on coming out...the biggest step is accepting it yourself, cause in the end its only yourself you got to answer to.

~^~^~^~^~ This is my world now ~^~^~^~^~
~^~ Lemming of Prostitutes and Insanity ~^~

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I missed this post my Fokker, but I have an explanation to it:

"Even if John Waynes idiotic statistic is true Homosexuals enjoy better standards of living and also tend to be richer.
I don't know why."
Very simple I think. Gay couples are 99.7643% less likely to be forced into the relationship (due to unwanted pregnancy which tends to haunt straight couples often; or for another reason). So, no children means all the money you make, you spend on yourself/ family or friends. And if a gay couple does adopt or whatever, it's usually after length consideration... not after one night when they were too drunk to use a condom.

Wow... had no idea that so many people here aren't straight lol... Almost makes me wonder about BW tongue

Thanks for the idea Damon. Arranging to spend time at a friends house (if need be) isn't something I had considered before, but I'll keep that in mind.
"lets hope 90% of the IC community follows your admirable example now"
-Lmao!

"In a world of global deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act." George Orwell

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"Wow... had no idea that so many people here aren't straight lol... Almost makes me wonder about BW"

If I remember rightly he did have a spiffy mustashe at one time.

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."