> avogadro wrote:
> yes, i have argued that gay marriage is destructive to society, i haven't argued that gay people shouldn't be able to marry solely because it is destructive to society... i argued that governments should not go out of their way to legalize something that is destructive to our society, esoecially when the destructive lifestyle it encourages is voluntary and would only increase its prominence; an argument where your infertile argument does not apply.
--... which boils down to you arguing that you don't want gay people to be able marry because you feel it is destructive to society (something which I dispute in any case). The fact that your society has never allowed gay marriage so far is just a matter of practical convenience where you don't have to take any initiative to see your wish become law. But this is just a historical explanation why gay marriage would require a legal intervention. There is no "natural order" that mandates it to be so, it is merely a policy choice for a legislator. Your basic argument, to put rather bluntly, is wanting your government to be lazy by not handing out new rights which you personally dislike while keeping around the mistakes of the past so to speak by allowing infertile people to marry. And by the way you mostly focus on infertility not being a choice, it sometimes isn't but often it is (vasectomies and whatever the fancy scientific name for the female body counterpart is), it can be a voluntary lifestyle just like you feel "living like a homosexual" is (as opposed to "feeling homosexual").
-- also the infertility comparison is a one sentence question I put to you at the end of a more substantive post which I don't think you have responded to, namely that gay marriage is not a slippery slope in a modern society (this ties in with your "increasing its prominence" part of your first post, so that's why I'm reiterating it here, I don't agree that there is a danger of a slippery slope by allowing gay marriage, so I don't consider this to be relevant for the infertility question):
Like I said it's not a slippery slope for our societies. In a modern society that allows homosexual intercourse but not homosexual marriage/civil union, the people who are actually gay will simply not marry or enter a civil union, those that do aren't gay but bisexual (or just confused). In the past when homosexual intercourse was actually prohibited and heavily frowned upon by society in general and religion in particular these people actually did regularly marry the opposite sex just to shake off social and legal punishments, but fortunately those shackles are pretty much gone now in modern western societies. None of the younger generations of gay people I know would ever marry a woman just out of some past form of peer pressure. Short of forcing them to have intercourse with women society simply does not have these people in the heterosexual marriage pool any longer, whether gay marriage is permitted or not is wholly irrelevant for the calculation of the actual (voluntary) birth rate potential.
--and by the way many homosexual people do want children and conceive them through alternative means (e.g. sperm/egg cell donations) and raise them with their homosexual partner. It's not like heterosexual people are forced to get children with their husband/wife if they are married either.
PS V. Kemp upon reviewing the last pages of this thread I see you accused me of an irony which I don't believe I committed, which I find unfortunate since I do love a good irony.