i'm lost for words here, it's like reading some strange alien language

WFS,

Waste? I never quite understood the crowd who promoted the idea of waiting for someone special. For pete sakes, it's a sensual experience, like going to see a movie or carnival.<<

wow, not like I ever walked out of a movie...

I think its mainly about not having to worry about any aspect of it, before during or after.

For instance, if I took Justinian up on his offer, then he'd have a lever to use on me against any woman I ever dated. "Hey, Chris tell you about his first time?"  So would the stripper.

Of course, if they weren't around anymore... hmm well that would be 2 firsts in one day.

Chris, that's your idea. But some people cling to the idea that your first time has to be with someone special. The teenage sitcoms your country exports do the same, so I assume it's not entirely alien to your culture.

I'm rather liberal on the subject though. I merely think a first time experience is something you shouldn't regret. If it's someone you love, all the better!

Important lesson everyone must know! You don't owe anyone unless it is explicitly stated. If someone does something nice for you without asking for something in return, you are not obliged to reciprocate later. If it makes you feel better, always ask "I don't owe you anything right?" If they ask for reciprocity later, then say "I do not owe you anything. Or were you trying to manipulate me?"

Really Chris, I think you are making a bigger deal out of s-x than it really is. It is a sensual experience, and you'll only feel guilty if you allow yourself to be. In my case, I view s-x as nothing emotional, and therefore I do not have emotional costs. It is fun and you should try it, just like I would advise you go see Iron Man II.

As for first times: It is not going to be the best. In fact, you may not fully understand the motions. I think it is best to be first taught by a professional so you don't look like a fool with your pants on the ground, haha.<<

nah I'd prefer a nice Catholic marriage where we have a duty to enjoy each other, then I don't have to feel guilty, we agreed to total reciprocity, we train each other and I could cripple her and have a nap afterwards.  That's waht the Pope says man and woman were made for

I think your sex is like Iron Man II - its nothing really good but you feel shamed into seeing it because everybody else does too

Pay for it

Do not be a n00b in the bedroom