"I dont really think you can force a country to become a "real" (where the hell do we have a real democracy besides switzerland maybe) democracy."
That is more a discussion about Symantics than about the actual point here don't you agree? In any case, in Russia you wouldn't have the possibility to choose your opinion like you do now without going to a labour camp.
"Thats something the russian people need to do, not the west."
They don't stand a chance in hell. Why let them go trough hardship and many dead people first before they ever become democratic?
"Seriously, the EU has a bunch of own problems it should solve before we start forcing our point of view on other countries."
No, we should solve both.
just in case you do want to debate about democracy:
Democracy imo is about power balances and control systems. Voting is in a way a system to control the gov. Imperfect and inefficient as it might be, it works. People can force the gov to respect certain laws and even force the gov to actively enforce them if need be. These systems will never be perfect, but are still better then anything we have tried so far.
If (part) of the gov succeeds in fooling the people, the democratic control system is less effective. Propaganda, intimidation and disinformation all lead to less democracy.
Russians can't "choose" for democracy. Most of those who openly did are in concentration camps. If your only option is a concentration camp or silence its an easy choice. Even those few mostly unaffected by daily propaganda of the gov system who want to raise their voice have to be very brave. Most of the brave are in jail. If the only crap we see everyday was party propaganda, you and me would probably believe it too.
I don't doubt there will be riots. But with enough pressure, transition will happen without bloodshed.