Democrats obviously exaggerated the "War on Women." I would not call it a war, but certain republican legislatures definitely went too far. Examples below:
Federal Level:
1. Republican legislators supported an effort to qualify the the federal abortion funding exception of rape to "forcible rape." Although not an attempt to redefined rape as democrats claimed, it is still utterly despicable.
2. Although the birth control-mandate amounts to wasteful spending, the Blunt amendment would have permitted any employer to deny contraceptive coverage to women who needed it for other documented medical reasons if it violated the employer's "conscience."
3. Republicans in the House viciously resisted renewing the "Violence Against Women" Act, which provided federal funding for programs such as women's shelters for prejudicial reasons.
4. Republicans in the House proposed substantial cuts to WIC, which provided assistance to young children and pregnant/breastfeeding mothers in poverty to obtain health care and nutrition services.
State Level:
1. Some states passed legislation requiring unnecessary counseling and medical procedures (mandatory ultra sounds) to obtain an abortion.
2. Wisconsin repealed its "Equal Pay Enforcement Act."
3. Kansas passed a bill requiring abortion providers to misinform their patients that cancer is linked to abortions, which is false.
Public Statements and Other Examples:
1. Falsely perpetuated claims about Planned Parenthood such as it being a racist and sexist organization because its stated goals are sex-selective and race-selective abortions, and that the majority of its work is abortions.
2. Bizarre statements made by tea-party candidates such as Todd Akin, Richard Mourdock and Tom Smith. Mourdock stated that abortion should not be permitted under any circumstances, and Smith compared pregnancy from rape to pregnancy out of wedlock.
3. Bizarre legislative proposals to outlaw abortions if a heartbeat is detected, and to consider the murder of an abortion doctor as justifiable homicide.
So while there probably isn't a "War on Women," I think it's fair to say that the tea-party is largely comprised of village idiots.