Virginity = the lack of sexual contact and that is separate of physicality and special for itself
Reminds me of the joke about a husband and wife on their wedding night. They'd never slept together and the man is looking forward to suprising the bride. So before she even has her shoes off he comes out of the bathroom naked.
"Hi honey! Do you know what THIS is?"
"Uh huh" giggled the bride. "That's your wee-wee".
"Ah honey, that's a [manly synonym for wee-wee], a [manly synonym for wee-wee]" laughed the groom.
"No, I've seen those. THAT'S a wee-wee"