> Chris_Balsz wrote:
<For instance, if I took Justinian up on his offer, then he'd have a lever to use on me against any woman I ever dated. "Hey, Chris tell you about his first time?" So would the stripper.
Of course, if they weren't around anymore... hmm well that would be 2 firsts in one day.>
Important lesson everyone must know! You don't owe anyone unless it is explicitly stated. If someone does something nice for you without asking for something in return, you are not obliged to reciprocate later. If it makes you feel better, always ask "I don't owe you anything right?" If they ask for reciprocity later, then say "I do not owe you anything. Or were you trying to manipulate me?"
Really Chris, I think you are making a bigger deal out of s-x than it really is. It is a sensual experience, and you'll only feel guilty if you allow yourself to be. In my case, I view s-x as nothing emotional, and therefore I do not have emotional costs. It is fun and you should try it, just like I would advise you go see Iron Man II.
As for first times: It is not going to be the best. In fact, you may not fully understand the motions. I think it is best to be first taught by a professional so you don't look like a fool with your pants on the ground, haha.