2,976

(18 replies, posted in General)

Why is it that when you have established a friendship with a woman, she seems insulted when you suggest a relationship or sex? Moreover, she will end your friendship no matter how much time, energy, and money you have invested in her. It seems like once you are stuck in the friendzone, any attempt to get out is an insult and unforgivable act no different from deep betrayal and backstabbing.

On the other hand, when you make your intentions clear (not explicitly, but with body language + flirting etc) and accept no compromise early in the relationship, you minimize wasted time and give yourself the best chance of having a sexual relationship with her.

Okay. It just doesn't make sense that if your reinforce yourself only as a friend, it's guaranteed that the bridge between you will burn if you try to suggest an adjustment to your relationship that would involve sex/relationship. And it doesn't matter how much you've invested in her either. Women are willing to end valuable friendships because the guy wanted to be more than a friend. WTF?

2,977

(18 replies, posted in Politics)

This is... a rare sort of punishment. It's like what happened to that one guy who was given a long sentence for having sex with a 16 year old when he was 17. Usually you get a slap on the hand for that.

Guys slap girl's asses in Middle School, and the worst the administration did was give them a detention.

> Loz is my style icon wrote:

> Btw, I can think of a few things that don't have 'weight, length, or location'. Thinking thoughts being one of them. Oh, and shadows! They cannot have length since they do not have depth, before you say it. Same goes for location.

Everything physical has a weight, length, and location. Thoughts are the same way, you look at the neuron carrying it. They're much like information on a computer. You have bit information and can trace how that information is graphically represented on the computer screen.

By promoting something that does not have these things... you are promoting something that is non-physical, which is pretentious.

Esa,

You anti-semite, lol.

> Loz is my style icon wrote:

> "These things don't have a weight, length, or location." "not naturally existing absolutes"

Who be sayin they're 'naturally existing'? Howcome you're going on about "Natural Rights"? No, rights don't exist naturally. I appreciate that, I'm with you on that one. I agree very much that rights don't have 'weight, length, or location' and equally I agree that me simply growing in my mother's womb means I _deserve_ to live, and that I _deserve_ to live happily in the way I wish. Rights are not something which nature owes humanity, and it IS 'pretentious' to assume that. >

Exactly, this is why Continental Euros are pretentious. Many of them, except you, believe in natural rights. Natural rights theory is a theory from the enlightenment and continues to remain very popular. Inalienable rights and human rights are examples of natural rights, theories that the continentals support. Natural rights theory is an absolutist moral theory, and often hidden as being secular.

>What rights are is this: a purely human _invention_. Invented to acknowledge the fact that, we, as a species, have progressed to a point where we are aware not just of our own personal struggle for survival, but are aware of, and empathetic for, the struggle of others.
This consciousness of others, a unity within our species, and a distinct desire to overcome primitive instincts such as competition and anger in the pursuit of intellectual and emotional progression as a race is what separates us from animals.

Rights are an invention, yes. But the important thing is that they are a choice, a choice which represents the evolution of our species to seek survival as a unified, intellectual race.>

Exactly, a human invention. But these desired outcomes are not characterized by evolution, because to the extent the continental Euros practice them is immensely costly. These values are a product of a culture on one big guilt trip. They need to get over it.

Secondly, with rights being human constructs, it is also pretentious to impose them. It implies that your way is superior and you are somehow entitled to impose them.

>If you deny yourself and others human rights, Justinian, then you are nothing more than an animal tongue>

Humans are animals, thanks.

> Loz is my style icon wrote:

> "Pretentious because you believe in natural rights"

Yes, how pretentious indeed! The Rights to life, security and freedom? My God, how up their own arses they are!>

They are! These things don't have a weight, length, or location. At the same time they vehemently support them.

Not that I don't agree with the right of life, security, and freedom etc. But I see that as pragmatic constructs, not naturally existing absolutes.

> Wild Flower Soul wrote:

> Right, "bowing for monarchies" is rarely the case in European history. Apart from several exceptions like Louis XIV of France and Philip of Spain and his father Emperor Charles V, the whole of Europe had representative organs from the 11th - 12th century on. These organs had undeniable power, based on money. Besides the Royal rights, the prince had to ask these bodies for money, who in return asked several rights.
When the prince sought to get around these bodies, you get uprisings like the Glorious Revolution, The 80-years war of the Netherlands etc. Revolts like that were hardly ever in favour of the prince.
According to Koenigsberger: republicanism was invented when princes started to hold more then 1 "dominium", and had to  rely on the representative bodies of them to govern efficiently..>

Eh. Well often times the peasantry hated the nobility but loved the monarchy. This is why the Parisian mob believed that if Louis VII was able to see their suffering, he would side with them against the nobility. Phillip and Charles V were powerful because of the wealth they had access to in the new world, which enabled them to finance armies the size not seen since ancient times. However, both were incompetent leaders who were unable to utilize their wealth effectively. Furthermore, Charles made enemies everywhere - from the nobility (thus the protestants) the church, and his neighbors. Louis XIV wasn't that bright either, financing profitless wars that bankrupted France. Second, he makes a 200,000 man army he can't even afford, lol.

And Republicanism was invented when the capitalist elites were able to challenge the old regime. In the case of Britain it was a little different, because Yeomen also exercised power and could challenge the nobility and king.

> Vampman14 wrote:

Because it was Britain who had the largest empire of any european or indeed any other country in the world a hundred years ago.  We try to help countries who used to be part of those empires stand on their own two feet so they don't have to rely on us to protect them.  Unless by that you admit that America has an imperial agenda.  In which case, we Euros are the ones who come in and clean up when America makes a mess of things.  We try to smooth shit out, and we get tarred with the same brush.>>>

No, you help them because you feel guilty. You're afraid to be self-interested and to do what's necessary. You look at history, and focus on the bad side of Colonialism and think to yourselves how horrible your ancestors were. You ignore the development of these empires and how it often turned about better for the subjects in the long-run. Furthermore, you completely ignore the genius of Hans Kohn, a once popular and titantic Historian who illustrated the stupidity of this thinking. He clearly showed how Western values were created by Westerners, that Western empires fell mainly because of internal pressures stemming from your stupid values. Furthermore, he correctly identified that the West has many competitors to its ruthlessness, because throughout human history the rule has been big fish eats small fish; small fish eats smaller fish. Asian and African states have historically been just as ruthless, even more so, than Western colonial empires. Through he praised Western morals, I find them degenerate nonsense that fosters costly projects in the name of a hypersensitive sense of empathy.

There is often no strategic benefit to the things you do. You actually are idealists and believe what you espouse. From stupid commoner to politician, who actually believe it and base foreign policy around it. America still has an empire and though not as realpolitik as it was under Kissinger, it is way more pragmatic than you idealists on the continent. The American people may search for moral absolutes, but our leaders are at least willing to do what's necessary. We still control an empire, and our empire is very profitable. Its profitability adds to Kohn's conclusion that you guys on the continent gave up yours for internal reasons - you abandoned power and profit for the sake of morality - the most degenerate culture ever.


<It should be, because then Mugabe and the government of Burma would have been technically illegal long ago, justifying invasion and liberation, and we know how much you love that Justinian.>

As much as an idiot and tyrant that Mugabe is, this doesn't make natural law real. Rights come from humans, they aren't natural. Provide me proof otherwise, show me the location, weight, and length of these rights. There's no empirical evidence for your crap theory, but there is for mine.

Note: Most Americans believe in natural rights, especially our stupid liberal journalists, but our top leaders definitely don't act that way.

>Ah, the hypocrite speaks.  Whose country invaded Iraq with the pretense of liberating it and giving it a democratic government, dragging Britain in with you when your government was really after oil.

And you wonder why some European countries are sick of having forces in Iraq and Afghanistan?  It's the arrogant and self-righteous attitudes you are displaying here which we can't stand.  You should be bloody grateful we're bothering to help you know, if all the European countries pulled out tomorrow, America would be [tree]ed.>

Granted, American leaders aren't brilliant. We try to advance our self interest while still looking good, but then fail miserably at it. Bush has also demonstrated himself to be a poor diplomat and practical handler of the situation in Iraq. However, you continental Euros have your priorities in reverse, as I have already stated.

Yes, why?

Ridiculous because you feel guilty and obliged to correct the wrongs of Western imperialism. As an outsider, I have to say you're emo and sensitive. Pretentious because you believe in natural rights, that a government's legitimacy is determined by its ability to guarantee those rights, and that you somehow have the right to impose this pretentious theory on the rest of the world. Hell, these rights are even laws, and somehow since you know these pretentious laws you can judge dictators as criminals!

Why?

2,984

(102 replies, posted in General)

> Muppet wrote:

> Darkmatt, in relation to the first I was referring to Justinian.


And Justinian, you're obviuously scared. Scared to accept that you're male.
Justinian loses!


And what's wrong with ape men?

I acknowledge that I'm a man foo. I just don't like my body hair, and I wear fit clothes. I care about my appearance.

You're the one whose masculinity is in question. You're too chicken to please Loz.

2,985

(102 replies, posted in General)

Avo,

Hahaha.

> Loz is my style icon wrote:

> Justinian, if there was even the faintest, most improbable snippet of a chance of me even contemplating fantasising about possibly considering what it may be like if I tried thinking about entertaining the idea of going anywhere near you, I can now conclude that it has now deserted me for good.

Haha. Oh so you did contemplate me? That's awesome. But it's alright, it's not like I want to visit you during my stay in Northumberland next year anyway. Ape lover!

But you're young yet. Your mind may yet change once you get laid, and you come to realize the itching sensation of body hair!

2,986

(102 replies, posted in General)

> Loz is my style icon wrote:

> Tbqh I have never actually witnessed an overly hairy back at close quarters so I have no idea what I'd think!

Would anyone like to share with us anecdotes about their hairy arse?

I shave that too.

2,987

(102 replies, posted in General)

lol.

Well I shave everything. Pubes, arms, thighs, legs, balls, armpits, and face etc. It's not that bad actually, just be careful with the balls. I go slow and only do a few strokes w/ the razor.

You're all a bunch of chickens. Just load up on lotion after. Otherwise it'll itch.

2,988

(102 replies, posted in General)

What do you think about guys shaving? I don't mean facial hair, I mean body hair - legs, pubes, armpits etc.

2,989

(24 replies, posted in Politics)

How can a president thousands of miles away be as responsive to a problem as the mayor who lives a mile away?

2,990

(10 replies, posted in Politics)

No. Given that my metabolism is ridiculously high, I can afford the leisure of being physically inactive. I take full advantage of it.

But good luck! Hope you win something.

2,991

(91 replies, posted in Politics)

BW,

The problem is that when prayer is used and we think it works, we can almost always identify a causal chain that sufficiently explains how the person recovered. For times that we can not, it usually turns out to be ignorance decades later when we actually do identify that causal chain. Secondly, medical procedures seem to yield much faster and consistent results with respect to recovery than does prayer.

The scientist has evidence and reliability on his/her side.

2,992

(91 replies, posted in Politics)

More evidence that prayer is unreliable.

2,993

(18 replies, posted in Community)

WFS,

Would you please be more liberal with permitting topics outside of the community forum? Sometimes the target audience is not in this sub forum. Yes you can be a stickler to the rules if you want, but it's kind of being a jerk when you stick to the rules at the expense of someone reaching their intended audience, especially when it's a serious concern. When Pie was a mod, for example, he allowed great liberality with politics forum regulars posting stuff about their personal lives. He recognized it as a community of its own.

2,994

(36 replies, posted in Politics)

Why hasn't Britain sent an army already?

2,995

(53 replies, posted in Politics)

Skoe is actually a communist.

2,996

(18 replies, posted in Community)

> &#9773; Fokker wrote:

> He's probably on a mission, he'll be back.

If he comes back alive

2,997

(18 replies, posted in Community)

And he's in the Marines.

2,998

(53 replies, posted in Politics)

None of you get it. America is a plutocracy. The Democrats are just more brilliant at serving that end while looking good.

2,999

(53 replies, posted in Politics)

Yup, it's true.

The Democrats won't dare challenge the mega rich. But they love their paternalistic programs, and in order to fund them they need to drop the hammer on the upper middle class (the people who make $75-200,000 a year and may have $5 million in savings). This class consists of working professionals and investors. Nancy Pelosi may argue that American's won't stand for a person inheriting a $million without heavy taxes, but at the same time she isn't going to take the same stance for someone inheriting a $billion. No the mega rich can't be taxed!

This demagoguery does one very important thing, it eliminates competition for the mega rich. The Democrats are in league with America's elite I tell you! Their paternalistic programs moreover are intended to make people dependent on them, and their rhetoric about supporting the people and fighting the rich is all a scam.

3,000

(142 replies, posted in Politics)

Just take my advice, because everyone knows I know what to do. I'm just too lazy to actually do anything, so I'm perfect for a naive emperor's informative and trusty adviser. Just give me a nice salary and lots of women, I'll be a happy camper.

See? I made the rebel LP come out of the closet and reveal his identity as a rebel sympathizer!