take out trash before asked +5
cleaning house while wife went shopping +40
does the laundry +5
does the laundry and puts it away and folds it +15
makes dinner +8
makes dinner and leaves the kitchen a mess 0
makes dinner and cleans +10
tells wife to go out for a girls night +5
tells wife to go out for a girls night  and watches children +25
tells wife to go out for a girls night, then has candles lit in the bedroom for her return +30
hand the wife $200 bucks to go shopping for her only +50
hand the wife $200 bucks to go shopping for her only  and goes with her +100
let the wife sleep in +10
make partner breakfast in bed  +5
sends u out to get food and u get exactly what she wanted +50
tells u its time and u pack, load car, and help her in the car +200

if George Bailey saw that list he'd jump off the bridge a second time