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i think ppl confuzzle prayers helping and prayers curing, as in curing on their own.
having said that, those things said in the polls really dont point out anything :s  (what is considered praying, what is considered helping??)

there have been studies (link meh:P?) pointing out ppl with positive attitudes tend to heal faster / cope better with disease/illness,
and religion is on of the things/mechanism/ whatever to provide ppl with a positive attitude,
and praying is often part of religion.

ppl also tend to feel better if they feel they are not forgotten or isolated, in that respect, hearing ppl will be praying for you (thinking of you ), might help stay positive as well

religious restrictions are often based no situations, findings, thoughts that might not be accurate or uptodate enough anymore, ppl should be able to reason about that, especially when someone's life is in danger. it s too damn easy to just say, well it is her/his time or god will prvide the miracle, mebbe the miracle lies in having the meds there already..

hmzz, is there really anything new being said in this thread here anyways? or is just bashing now tongue?
pass me the popcorn!

till the end of time..

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"i think ppl confuzzle prayers helping and prayers curing"

I agree and I propose the government dispatch agents to find these people and give them a well deserved smack.  Then have them relocated to a facility where they can watch the instructional video "Prayer in Medicine: It'll Fight the Battle but it Can't Win the War"  Starring Dr Phil and David Spade

There are 10 kinds of people in this world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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I addressed this earlier, on page two wink


"Well if anyone believes that prayer helps there was a test under observable conditions: http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/health/2002901053_pray31.html

"There was virtually no difference in complication rates between patients in the first two groups. But the third group, in which patients knew they were receiving prayers, had a complication rate of 59 percent, significantly more than the 52 percent in the no-prayer group"

It's also worth noting that of the three groups the group that did not know it was being prayed for had the same results as the no prayer group."

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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"And yet the child had not seen a Doctor since the age of three."

according to one source, who they only refer to as Vergin...

"But I know their actions, and their actions tell me they chose Prayer over Medicine."

and how did their actions tell you that?

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that s just one study red, and they might ve overlooked confounders smile

till the end of time..

56 (edited by ☭ Fokker 19-Apr-2008 14:47:16)

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> avogadro wrote:

> "And yet the child had not seen a Doctor since the age of three."

according to one source, who they only refer to as Vergin...<

If you doubt the validity of the source I suggest you contact the reporter.


>"But I know their actions, and their actions tell me they chose Prayer over Medicine."

and how did their actions tell you that?<

Because that is what they did, or did you miss the part where it took some other member of their family to call an ambulance rather than the parents themselves?




> ..Nemeara.. wrote:

> that s just one study red, and they might ve overlooked confounders smile<

The confounders?
Regardless, all other studies of this kind (which are easily researched) show similar results, results which can be duplicated with sing songs and family visits.

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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There are so many studies, with so man results. You can trust nothing not to have bias or something wrong with various selection processes.
All reports sould cite what their ownlimitations are.

"The true office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong; the world will side with you when you are right."
"It is not just a friend's help that helps us, but the knowledge that they will unconditionally do so."

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i was trying to point at that the effect of a positive attitude/coping mechanism has been proved significantly in several studies, and that the effect of prairs/praying isnt easily researched smile and the subject is of such nature ppl pro and con will find studies to suit their explanation

till the end of time..

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I firmly believe that prayer changes things for the better. People with a positive mindset will fight and become stronger.

"The true office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong; the world will side with you when you are right."
"It is not just a friend's help that helps us, but the knowledge that they will unconditionally do so."

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> ..Nemeara.. wrote:

> i was trying to point at that the effect of a positive attitude/coping mechanism has been proved significantly in several studies,<

Exactly my point.


>and that the effect of prairs/praying isnt easily researched smile and the subject is of such nature ppl pro and con will find studies to suit their explanation<

What's so hard to study about it? People either pray or they don't, it either works or it doesn't.

I have never read an article about or even heard of prayer being more successful than good old fasioned positive thinking.

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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"I have never read an article about or even heard of prayer being more successful than good old fasioned positive thinking."

Who says that they're so different?

Having faith and belief is a very strong form of positive thinking.

"The true office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong; the world will side with you when you are right."
"It is not just a friend's help that helps us, but the knowledge that they will unconditionally do so."

62 (edited by ..Nemeara.. 05-May-2008 22:09:37)

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> Muppet wrote:

"Having faith and belief is a very strong form of positive thinking."


correction: *can be a very strong form of positive thinking

it isnt perse. it doesnt help if u "give up" and watch the skies cuz you ll be saved anyways ( imo)


for ppl who "believe" stuff about positive energy, stuff like telepathy etc, praying could be seen as a way of conveying positive energy

till the end of time..

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wow you atheist are so ignorant and full of hate

Lauderdale/Sonic/Taliban

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> authenticthug wrote:
> wow you atheist are so ignorant and full of hate<

If I ask you for an explanation regarding this post will it be relevant to the discussion or am I right in assuming you are just trying to stir up the muck?

If my assumption is right then I suggest you read your bible very carefully, I think you will find something in there about picking fights and stirring muck for no good reason.

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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no not that I can recall but it does talk about ignorant and hateful people who end up going into Jewish synagogues  killing one woman and injuring  6 others after holding a
gun  to the head of a 14 year old girl to get into the temple,  my point is you cant hate someone for what they believe because it leads to such tragedies and by the way im not jewish or in any form of religion.

Lauderdale/Sonic/Taliban

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"wow you atheist are so ignorant and full of hate"

Human beings are full of hate what planet are you living on.

In defence of atheists they're no more hateful than any other group of people and a lot less dangerous than most.

"Having faith and belief is a very strong form of positive thinking."

Yes it can be.  It can also be a source of anxiety, guilt, and fear which are quite detrimental to your health.  Keep in mind there are still religions and religious sects that view illness as a punishment from God, belief in these are absolutely no help to the sick.

There are 10 kinds of people in this world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

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authentichug, you sire, made moronicly stupid remarks..

"no not that I can recall but it does talk about ignorant and hateful people who end up going into Jewish synagogues  killing one woman and injuring  6 others after holding a gun to the head of a 14 year old girl to get into the temple,  my point is you cant hate someone for what they believe because it leads to such tragedies and by the way im not jewish or in any form of religion."

How is that an argument? 1, apparently atheist, lad goes bananas and goes on a shooting spree makes atheists bad by default? I'd like to remind you that thousands were killed in the name of some religion (crusades, spanish reconquista, pogroms, holocaust, palestinians, catholic wars, early christians, and so on), wich doesn't make them hardly any less evil.

"wow you atheist are so ignorant and full of hate"

Apparently, you're the ignorant one, young unknowing soul!

God: Behold ye angels, I have created the ass.. Throughout the ages to come men and women shall grab hold of these and shout my name...

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What a poorly constructed and punctuated post!


"no not that I can recall"

I'm assuming this is in response to "Shit stirring is unchristian, the Bible says so" comment.


"but it does talk about ignorant and hateful people who end up going into Jewish synagogues  killing one woman and injuring  6 others after holding a gun  to the head of a 14 year old girl to get into the temple,"

Guns in the Bible? Wow, this thing is cooler than I thought! Hmm, maybe that was a figure of speech that just looks like a statement of fact due to your poor sentence structure? So how do we know these "ignorant and hateful" people are definitely Atheist and not members of Islam or some other strange cult?


"my point is you cant hate someone for what they believe because it leads to such tragedies and by the way im not jewish or in any form of religion."

You didn't read the thread properly did you? You read untill you saw something you didn't like and then you promptly bashed at your keyboard in a religious fervour without ever thinking that a bunch of Atheists could come to this realisation on their own, didn't you?
Old news, friend: Already discussed, already agreed upon, already pointed out SEVERAL TIMES that what pisses us off is NOT the parents RELIGION, it is the parents ACTIONS.

Now bugger awf! X(

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

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My post isn't poorly constructed. Nor is it badly punctuated X(

God: Behold ye angels, I have created the ass.. Throughout the ages to come men and women shall grab hold of these and shout my name...

70 (edited by Wild Flower Soul 10-May-2008 01:07:08)

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"You say that the odds are too large for the origin of life to be by chance, so what are the odds for the existence of a creature that cannot be seen, heard, smelled or touched, but exists everywhere all the time and is all-powerful and is apparently unaffected by the billions of paradoxes its existence requires, let alone creates? Do tell me of those odds, please?"

Thats an athiest statement buddy also Islam and cults all believe that there is a supreme being or higher power. and my post may have  be poorly constructed and puncuated so what  [powder] off , also Im a world religion major in uni and every religion in the world believes in some sort of prayer even Satinism the parents of the girl just took it too far, they didnt realize doctors are a tool for god to work through.

Lauderdale/Sonic/Taliban

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"the parents of the girl just took it too far, they didnt realize doctors are a tool for god to work through."

And that is the general issue, the parents were morons.  The only variable is whether people think it was religion that made them stupid, stupidity that made them religious, or that their stupidity was unrelated to their religion.

Personally I have nothing against anyone of any religion I just don't agree with them.  So you can believe in whatever divinity you want as long as you don't force it onto anyone else I don't care.

There are 10 kinds of people in this world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

72 (edited by Wild Flower Soul 10-May-2008 01:17:43)

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"Thats an athiest statement buddy"

Yes my signature is an atheistic statement, however I fail too it's relevance regarding this:

<<"but it does talk about ignorant and hateful people who end up going into Jewish synagogues  killing one woman and injuring  6 others after holding a gun  to the head of a 14 year old girl to get into the temple,"

Guns in the Bible? Wow, this thing is cooler than I thought! Hmm, maybe that was a figure of speech that just looks like a statement of fact due to your poor sentence structure? So how do we know these "ignorant and hateful" people are definitely Atheist and not members of Islam or some other strange cult?>>


"also Islam and cults all believe that there is a supreme being or higher power."

Which is relevant to the issue of "ignorant and hateful people because?... Are you honestly suggesting that being religious automatically protects someone from being ignorant and hateful?


"and my post may have  be poorly constructed and puncuated so what  [buzzcocks] off,"

So what? How about you're trying to make a point and I'm having to guess what that point is? Not exactly conducive to understanding is it?


"also Im a world religion major in uni and every religion in the world believes in some sort of prayer even Satinism"

That's nice, and yes they do.... how is this relevant?


"the parents of the girl just took it too far, they didnt realize doctors are a tool for god to work through."

So we are in agreement, pleasure talking to you.

smile

"So, it's defeat for you, is it? Someday I must meet a similar fate..."

73 (edited by Wild Flower Soul 10-May-2008 01:26:11)

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"Thats an athiest statement buddy also Islam and cults all believe that there is a supreme being or higher power. and my post may have  be poorly constructed and puncuated so what  [powder] off , also Im a world religion major in uni and every religion in the world believes in some sort of prayer even Satinism the parents of the girl just took it too far, they didnt realize doctors are a tool for god to work through."

You claim to be a major in world religion, yet you can't distingiush the difference between a religion, a denomination, a sect and a cult, as cults don't have to acknowledge the existance of a higher being.
More troubling however is that you're studying at a university while your knowledge of english (no offense, but your spelling is worse then mine, and I'm not a native speaker tongue) is that poor..
If it's true what you say: go find a decent school lad!

"the parents of the girl just took it too far"

Indeed, pray all you want, but let the doctors do their job..

"they didnt realize doctors are a tool for god to work through."

I disagree, but that's cause I'm an atheist, and I'll cast that aside tongue
But here's something to think about: If medical treatment is indeed a tool of god to save people, would that mean that -since we have an excellent medical knowledge, better then ever seen before- god loves us more then people who lived before? Wouldn't that imply that god preferred the islamic people (as their medical knowledge was far superior then the western) in the middle ages and early modern times over christians?
I think, while we're discussing religion, that religion and science can only be reconciliated when you accept deism.

And, to conclude this post, I'd like to add that certain words aren't allowed in these forums, please watch your language wink

God: Behold ye angels, I have created the ass.. Throughout the ages to come men and women shall grab hold of these and shout my name...

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"...god loves us more then people who lived before?"

Not necessarily. I believe that God put us here one way or another, and He wishes to see how we develop. We couldn't very well have been put here with everything if God didn't want to see how people became who they are and who, ultimately, deserves to go to Heaven.

"The true office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong; the world will side with you when you are right."
"It is not just a friend's help that helps us, but the knowledge that they will unconditionally do so."

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"wow you atheist are so ignorant and full of hate"

Name one war fought in the name of atheism.

Psychogenesis / Baracus / Coco


Thus, he proclaimed "By the power vested in me, I now declare you the 12th Earl of Toolchester, and what a tool you shall be"