Id agree the war was going on for a while, but part of the reason was it was a family ranked higher in both planets and nw than both us and our allies combined. So we take our time and finally got to where we could hit them. Its not always a quick and easy war, especially when you are the little guy and dont feel like giving up any more planets than you need to. 59 went inactive, I cant argue that, but to have a personal vandetta to go after a fam for just one planet, even a morale, is a bit excessive lol.
I guess bottom line is it was up to us to ask for a NAP and we never got around to it. Instead we took our time working our way up and doing what we could with 59 till we were in a position to finally attack them. We were both going back and forth on attacks for a while, so there wasnt much hiding going on, just a lull while we set up. I guess Im kinda surprised you didnt have infils on at least half of 59 like you normally do with people you are about to hit. Whats done is done, and the round is about over, so congrats again and Im sure we will all see ya next round 
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