> Zarf BeebleBrix wrote:
If you don't care about a person enough to trust them, why are you doing them in the first place? <

Are you a virgin? Christian? Total bloody retard?
Look, just because you trust someone, does not mean you CAN trust them.
I trusted my wife, enough to marry her, have unprotected sex with her, and unknowingly catch several unpleasant diseases from her by the end of year three.

Also: I care about my friend, Jud. He's a good guy, a child in a mans body really. He's also a raging heroin addic and I wouldn't trust him with... well, anything.
Just because you care, does not mean that you trust. That does not mean you are uncaring, that means you are smart.