Re: Sibling Help Required
@ gladiator
my parents dont spy at me, but theyll always know when theres something wrong
i never said u should bring up the spying
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@ gladiator
my parents dont spy at me, but theyll always know when theres something wrong
i never said u should bring up the spying
I dont have a younger sister but let me think what i would do in this situation....
You can't let her know you've been snooping, she will run away from home ![]()
I dont know how well you and yur sis get along but perhaps spend more time with her, and talk to her about boys and stuff, she what she says. If she tells u that shes talking to people on the internet try and find out more, let her know it's not safe.
Dont whatever u do argue with her, because i do have an older sister and know you can't win.
If she lies to you and doesn't tell you anything then sneak around it, say u accidentally saw her msn and were a bit worried or something.
Or just tell her that you know what she gets up to on the internet and if it continues your going to make her life a living hell. Not like she can tell on you if ur parents feel the same way? might even make them do some parenting..
hi DW ![]()
i just thought of something the other, didnt read the orther postst yet, so it might be mentioned already, and mebbe it doesnt apply in your situation at all ![]()
is it true that she is the middle sibling? i couldnt help about thinking she likes the attention, and may be compensating; middle siblings sometimes tend to feel neglected, or feel more pressure to do something outstanding, cuz the youngest is the baby (spoilt? lots of attention and regard?) and the oldest , you, in this case is doing good in life, prolly the proud of your parents?
gtg, catch ya later
btw this is so much simpler if its a brother isn't it?
if your dad caught your brother trying to screw somebody he met online he'd just wait for him to come home and beat the snot out of him
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH6JaNMAmuU
lolz yell ![]()
and yeah, my sister was more comfortable in coming to me with stuff than to my parents as well
sometimes parents freak out if you use certain words or frases, whilst siblings know how to put it into context and mebbe even why something would be unwise to do ![]()
@gamer
how would they explain them knowing all that stuff?
i thought i saw something about a word file containing chatlogs, or they could just say theyve noticed something wrong/weird in her acts
Definitely don't threaten or try to pen her up. Rather, talk to her and such, gain her trust and give her yours. Teenagers can be volatile and unpredictable and make many mistakes, but more often than not, they learn if taught properly. Just don't, as Dimpel said, push her away; you want to be able to have her trust you enough to take your word seriously. She's unlikely to trust you if you let her know you've been spying on her and that you want to threaten her with it. I have two younger sisters and I've had to deal with such things before, good luck! ![]()
what always sets me straight is just the fact that my parents know what i did and the shame... that will probly work for her too unless shes a different person. everyone is different.. i would say dont go punishing her because losing the internet will only make her wanna go do that more because she feels that you have right to control her. Just let her know what you found and go from there. seeing how she reacts. the best thing that works is to tell her dont do it again and suddenly you become the good guy for not punishing her. this worked for me but i dont know if it will work for you exactly
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