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dont let tu in this convo, all this talk of minors will kill him..
but for real man, its an awkward situation.. let me talk to her 
BTW which country are you from? because there is different age limits for sex in different countries
like here in england its 16 ( im also 16 ) so theres also the possibility you cant actualy stop her if she is above the limit...
> Humidity wrote:
> like here in england its 16 ( im also 16 ) so theres also the possibility you cant actualy stop her if she is above the limit...
Believe me, if it were my little sister (mine's only 12) there would be a hell of a lot I could do to stop her.
> ☠ARFeh☠ wrote:
> What did you say her email address was?
I thought maybe these forums would be sensible...apparently not.
> Santoro wrote:
I thought maybe these forums would be sensible...apparently not.<
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...
...wait lemme re-read that...
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
But it's not NOT helping him is it?
Yeeeeah. Blows your mind doesn't it!
Well it doesn't really blow my mind. I know that you asking for his sisters email address isn't helping him sort out the problems he is having with his sister.
HELP
>To give assistance to; aid: I helped her find the book. He helped me into my coat.
>To contribute to the furtherance of; promote.
>To give relief to: help the needy.
>To ease; relieve: medication to help your cold.
>To change for the better; improve: A fresh coat of paint will help a scarred old table.
You have done none of the mentioned, so i can deduce that you are NOT helping.
JACK-ASS
>A male donkey.
>A contemptibly foolish or stupid person; dolt; blockhead; ass.
It all falls into place...yes?
Santoro, you are a man of simple words it seems...how about these ?
ONLINE GAME FORUMS
>Filled with sexually starved boys/men, who have nothing better to do with their time than to answer other sexually starved boys/mens posts.
I am left with a feeling of WHAT THE HELL do you expect ?
Fact is simple, DW knows what his sister is allowed to and not allowed to do. Posting his problem here he ought to expect dozens of malicious replies, followed by the occasional well meant post, and since I know DW well, I also know that he already knew this.
Did you notice his lack of anger in his own replies ?
Now if it suits your own agenda to be the goodie-two-shoes paladin of the forums, go right ahead, but it serves you no good. Be warned.
Rhys, talk to me on msn if you need to talk, there be lamers in these shallows.
It doesn't serve my agenda to be a so called goodie-two-shoes, but I think there is a time and a place for idiocy. Damn, i even act like a dunce, but i do have a sense of decorum, which apparently some people are lacking.
It has to be said that when posting this I knew full well that there would be a 80% chance of getting comments such as "what's her email address" & "let me talk to her" but on the whole there are some genuine people in this community in which I can have a decent chat to about such things who offer advice and don't just bring idiocy to the table with them.
As it stands I told her I was keeping an eye on her (she doesn't know in what way I am - i.e. the keylogger and screen dumper and msn watching tools), I'm just waiting for the right time to tell her all the shit i have on her and see which way she goes. I don't think my parents would be too happy with half the stuff she has said online and half teh things she claims to have done so a touch of blackmail is looming for her.
In the end if she keeps going teh way she is I'll block her MAC address on her laptop from the router, destroy all the CAT5e cables and turn all the accounts on the main house pc to childrens except for my parents. Seems the only logical thing left to do, vista has some nice parental controls I could also use.
Just wish my Dad hasn't told me about all this and asked me to keep an eye on her 
I know the feeling, my sis ran off at age 16. She stayed with friends of the family but she still insisted on being wild.
have your parents spoken to her?
DW if i were you i would'nt tell your parents i wouldn't want them to get pissed and do something out of anger
and them possibly grounding her might make things even worse
like i said before either talk to her straight up, or leave this forum open and let her read up on it herself 
DeathWatch,
I'm 2 years younger than my sister and she often comes to me for advise instead of my parents or our older brother. You father probably didn't know how to approach the situation and since your ages are closer you would be able to approach her better and she probably is more open with you than your dad. Again, I know you may want to disconnect her from the Internet but that WON'T WORK. There are other computers in the world. What you need her to do is change her attitude and understand the problem with her actions. Sure if you could truely block he from the Internet everywhere it may have some success but overall when she goes off to college, or heck is working and is mid twenties if she is still doing unsafe activities it will probably catch up with her and that's part of what you need to get across.
Again, I'm watching you isn't productive. It will only make her more secretative. What you need is a way to dicsuss the problem not making her hide it. Also, never ever let her know where you got the information cause then she'll just move to another computer which you nor your family has access to ie libary or internet cafe. Again it needs to be out of love and concern. As some1 else said she needs/wants to be treated as an adult and the consequenses of giving away personal information isn't being disconnected from the Internet, its that some of these people are very bad people and may do bad things to you. That's what you need to get across that she needs to be safer with her interactions with strangers locally, and even more improtantly those that she meets on the Internet.
it may be imoral, but carry on keeping tabs on her convos & talk to her friends who you can trust, about things.
if her friends do say something you don't like, then confront your sister, calmly, & just talk to her. if its drugs there must be a reason for wanting them, if so, why? if sex, then explain that she is too young & no ones worth it for her to make a mess of her life at such a young age...
i myself am 23 & have a 16 (nearly 17) yr old sister & every 2 week she has a new boyfriend & i'm always funny about it.
if it's boys dragging her into this kind of life, then go after them, & threaten the shit out of them, without hitting. trust me, this works. my sister got loads of crap from these two lads, i had enough of it, my dad had enough. so me, him & a mate of mine (steve) went after them in car & after nearly running them over, we had a few 'words' with them. since then, they have been ok...
but as ppl have said, if you are truly worried about things, then stopping her access to the internet could make things worse... has she got a mobile? and she cant stop in the house forever...
...all i can suggest at first is to have a quiet word with her. or if you have a female cousin who is close to you could maybe do it. depends how comfortable you both would feel.
omg rambaldi you remind me of this time when i was 14, my gf's brother was the over-protective type, her dad was ok with me and her mom too, but her brother just hated me for some reason, he just didn't like anyone with her sister, he though she was too young
so one day we were coming back from the movies i walked her to her door, said good-bye made my way down the stairs and there i see the garage open, with her brother in the car laughing...i knew something was up so i just started running, he started the car and tryed to run me over 
well he didn't mean to run me over just send the message across, he would speed up and then brake just when i'm about to go over the car, luckily i made it to the side walk and he couldn't keep on following me , i told her and i'm preety sure her brother got a beating from her dad,
it's funny now that i think of it but i almost [browned] my pants back then
im hearing so much macho-big man- tough- intimidating talk here
when will ppl realise that that does NOT help, it makes things more complicated, just plain worse and a lot more dangerous
whats wrong with parents just having a normal chat with their daughter?
yea those two did 
they were perfectly timing crossing the road as i got to them in the car. i however, did not put my foot on the brake, but floored it on the accel haha. i can still remember the adrenaline pumping through my veins.
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Just forward the email addies of the creeps to some organisation or police unit that does soemthing about it. And what Justinian says.
careful u can take the cat5 cables but if shes smart enough she will know you need one to go to the router directly from the cable... then again you could always lock up the room that stuff is in... but you definitely cannot let this keep up...
@Gamer it's wrong for this situation because DW's sis will be furious that they were spying on her and she would get the wrong message completely, she wouldn't even try to understand where her parents are coming from, i can say this from expereince, while the situations i was in didn't involve anything DW's sister is doing or anything on the internet for that matter they were still very similar and i remember just getting mad and instead of understanding I would just stay mad and I would go back to doing what i was doing ,
well in that case perhaps tell your parents to wonder in her room and find a "conversation" that wasnt really there on her computer when mommy was putting her clothes back in the closet...
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in all fairness yell, if i were your sister, i'd run off
inb4 rape
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