Lee if you are so dissapointed about the game and the 'napbreakers' like me, then DELETE like the 2 in my fam did by your dirty dirty and low tricks.  It's a shame you cannot stand a fight with a 9th ranked fam for more than 1 day.
All you do in this game is BS like this, again and again

.Check strong fams around and nap them
.Aprroach and annoy small fams
.When those small fams clear you from their core you start your diplo snake style
.Get easy compensation planets to incrase your pcount without a real fight, ocasionally you can raid a banker to increase pressure and increase the comp offered.
.When you have gained enough planets that way and run strong econ you cancel on the weaker of your napped fams

Sadly for you stand still and fight a war for more than 1 day vs a 9th ranked fam is not in your manual, because you have found resistance, not a raided family willingly to pay and not fight. 
When you realise that war is costing you the round then you add a new low snake tactic to your lilst -> charm and deceive in chat, and get things sorted quickly so no other player can read behind your nice words.
Unfortunatly, I'm that "other" player, and if I have to break a nap, be declared rogue or whatever to preserve honor I WILL DO IT.

Lee wake up, there's real people behind those empires you treat like your own chess pieces and move at your will, you aint god my liege, your manipulation ends where my nose starts, and you cannot pass thru, so now you are stuck with this war vs a dead fam that you're unable to fight. 
You started this when raided serenity for 50+ planets, pressure tactics dont work with me, our only goal is to ruin your round just like you did with ours, now deal with it, because you have nobody in this side to use your 'diplomatic' skills, theres NO STEP BACK.

deal with it, or just delete and come here to place your whine, pathetic!
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