Well there is a difference between killing off 1 person in your fam, and killing off your entire fam (apart from inactives) which is what Bara has done...there were alot of complaints aimed at Bara, and many complaints sent to mods...now, the only reason Bara was killing off players was because his leadership was under threat, as only inactive players voted for him. Instead of allowing the whole fam to decide the fate of the fam, active members were killed off in order to secure his leadership.
I find SS players are mostly n00bs, who actually have little experience dealing with fams, and as such are scared to deal with the fam. I for one was SS when I started playing ONLY because I was unsure how family aid worked. Then went to teams, and found no matter how much I sent, my partner wouldn't send much back (and I never like asking for aid, never sure how much is being greedy)...there is often a hatred towards SS players, but you could certainly encourage their input into the fam and show them HOW a team works together...
So in essence, killing off an inactive player would be seen as ok (i mean if you seriously never see any activity from him, kill him off)...leave SS players alone and maybe try and bring them into the fam a bit more, and let family politics play out, and you won't have any problems with the rules...play the game, don't try and dominate your fam, it's that simple 
I give your invention the worst score imaginable. An A minus MINUS!
~Wornstrum~