Topic: Unhappy husband divorces wife over virginity

http://www.news.com.au/story/0,23599,23787122-401,00.html

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I personally don't see the problem here...Except that far too many people put there nose in where it doesn't belong...



If a man seeks a certain quality in a partner and that partner lies about said quality -- why wouldn't the man be allowed to divorce?

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not a divorce it is anulled. a little different.

,but yeah they could always have thier hymen sewed back on.

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'"The law says that when there is an error concerning essential qualities of one of the spouses, an annulment can be sought," he said on LCI television.

The same clause has been used in French courts to annul marriages in which one person discovered only afterwards that the other had concealed a divorce or had a physical or mental disability that made a normal sexual life impossible."

sounds about right. if you conceal something from your partner that would keep them from marrying you and they find out about it after they marry you, they should be able to annul the wedding.

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"Politicians, feminists and human rights activists denounced the verdict, handed down last month but reported in the national press only on Thursday, as an affront to the legal equality of men and women and a violation of a woman's privacy. "

Apparently France will collapse if a woman can't screw around and lie about it....mm, what do i expect of France?

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I expect this decision to be reversed in appeal.

The article on which they base themselves to annul the marriage states that when you 'err' in a person, the marriage is void. But the explanation-interpretation of this article is that to 'err' means you've married someone with a mistaken identity, e.g. carrying a false name, or a twin. Consequently, since it is rather far-fetched that this would ever happen, in Belgium (with the same code and on the whole the same interpretation) no-one has ever used that article yet. Consequently, the decision will probably be reversed.

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Looks like we're all in agreement on this one, how refreshing.

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A lot a woman do not bleed the first time.  hmm

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8 (edited by avogadro 02-Jun-2008 18:01:37)

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is that what they told you? smile

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grushdeva there are belgian decisions involving mistaken identities in marriage, mostly regarding handicapped people

I agree that this decision should be quashed, but this is typical multicultural reasoning and it's possible it ends up on the desk of people with a similar mindset as the first judge clearly had

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10 (edited by avogadro 02-Jun-2008 18:19:03)

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it says in the article

"The same clause has been used in French courts to annul marriages in which one person discovered only afterwards that the other had concealed a divorce or had a physical or mental disability that made a normal sexual life impossible."

it seems like if those lies fit in, a lie about virginity can fit in too, especially in the context of a strict Muslim community.

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> avogadro wrote:

> is that what they told you? smile

Lol.! You know, people who make jokes like that most often are the ones who need to compensate for something. smile

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it's those two's lives

why the hell does anyone care, you can't make the guy go back with the girl, he divorced her, as i see it he should be fine if he doesn't even have a reason, and the girl should live with it, he divorced her, THE END.

why do we have to make such a big deal out of it?, for all we know that could be the last straw...
and i doubt it's really about the virginity, but it's about the lie, if my gf lied to me about something like this, i would probably forgive her, but i'd sure be pissed, and everyone reacts differently, i'm sure he was more pissed than i would be, but that's the way he is, and so he divorced her

13 (edited by East 02-Jun-2008 21:15:28)

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you need to understand the legal intricacies; now I'm not an expert in franch marital law but generally speaking:

annulments = the marriage never existed, meaning everything contracting parties got from eachtother has at least in theory be restituted; since this looks to be a conservative muslim it means his wife stayed at home and didn't make any money, ergo she will have been the most profiting party from the marriage and will be in debt ; as opposed to a normal divorce where the wife, who is probably the weakest party, could qualify for some form of alimony from the husband;

there is a world of difference between the two so I wouldn't dismiss this case so callously, especially not if you're an obama supporter (lol)

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It says the annulment happened right after the marriage. You cannot get alimony for a marriage that lasted one day, even if the anullment becomes a divorce.

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ah I see he discovered it during the wedding night lol, but then that is only convenient for this case since the principle can be applied in other cases with less convenient dates

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There's nothing valuable about virginity. That's my thought.

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You guys forget the obvious here...
maybe she was ungly when he sobered up?
maybe her dad wasn't all that rich?
maybe he got another offer?

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"A lot a woman do not bleed the first time. "

Of course it's true X(

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"A lot a woman do not bleed the first time."

What the hell? Why on earth would a virgin bleed? Has her boyfriend not heard of lubricant?

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The hymen is...

damn is virginity so rare to you guys that I have to go into it?

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My bed was permamently stained when I took a lady's virginity. Bout 9 inches by 9 inches in the location.

Thing you slugs dont know is that if your still involved in the action, then no scab can ummm.... form...

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fokker, i think that is a question you best ask your parents...

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Done some research...
Are you oldies aware that most girls dont have hymens any more due to the popularity of tampons, and that something as simple as playing rough can break it?
A friend of mine aparently lost hers whilst horseriding.

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"A friend of mine aparently lost hers whilst horseriding."

roll

yeah that one's about 400 years old

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And the tampons?

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