Re: My comming out.
It's only gay if you make eye-contact, untill that happens you are just practicing Ju-Jitsu
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It's only gay if you make eye-contact, untill that happens you are just practicing Ju-Jitsu
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lol winme is saying that two wrongs don't make a right
Yeah, but 3 lefts do...
Has he come out as Canadian yet?
That's worse I'd say =o
haha
Muhahahaha
sally "HeHe"...I knew it!
i dont know what the big fuss is about
don't worrie, and dont be scared, if they dont accept you, its their loss. you choose ur lifestyle. Just ignore every fool that comments you on it.
I hate it when people say "you choose your lifestyle". Speaking from personal experience, I didn't wake up one day and think "Gee, wouldn't it be swell to be gay... I mean, I might get killed by thugs, targetted by homophobes and be discriminated in the work place... sounds like it could be fun!" For me, homosexuality was something quite natural and wasn't something I chose to be. Secondly, homosexuality isn't a lifestyle; it is a sexual orientation. Again, using myself as an example, my lifestyle is not hugely different to many of the people I work with, except they're all straight and I'm not.
Oh, and to be honest, I think a little bit of worry is a good thing. It is highly unfortunate that not everyone in the real world is quite as accepting as most of the people in this virtual world. I've been verbally abused and threatened with violence in the street as a result of my homosexuality. I've even seen other people get bullied, by people I thought would know better, purely because result of their bisexuality.
*me hugs lat*
but don't get ne ideas X( ![]()
*cheers for Lat*
You tell 'em, sister! ![]()
(also, hi hun, long time no talk)
just this post, congrats on the coming out and living with who you are
skoe made me piss myself with his comment on the 1st page lol
Smartz!
Do I have your MSN? I think I do, but there are so many IC people on my MSN that I can't remember who is who.
What's part of your current screen name?
*Hugs Lloyd List*
I told 'em! I told 'em good!!
And yeah... been quite a while.
Perhaps I should grace IRC with my presence one day soon... Or perhaps just get on MSN between now and the apocalypse.
*Fondles Arch*
Mwhaha
Lat, that all sounds fair enough. Afterall, we all know that homosexuality is an evil work of the devil and must not be tolerated under any circumstances. That's why all gay people have AIDS, it's a punishment from God.
Lat tell Ina to accept my request to this TI Trip group on FaceFook.
And remember SD, Hurricane Katrina was God's punishment for people accepting sodomy.
omg I'm never going to another Canadian Tire again......Ill now be forced to go to Rona or Home Depot......just joking. Good for you on your decision to come out, even if it was in the IC forum.
And the decision to not tell anyone in your family is up to you. When you feel comfortable you will make this choice.
/me hugs all my IC lovers
:)
"CT - you're just the distant cousin of those gay-bashing right wing Texan Christians, that's all i'm saying - your ridiculous lack of tolerance is directed at someone you don't agree with, just like theirs :-p"
- WinMe, isn't not so much as cousins, as a different sub species. All those generations soaking it up in the oil sands have caused unnatural mutations in native Texans.
And TN, openly believing in a high power is not the same as openly believing the bible literally and thinking bum sex is the devil at work.
Hey Mizzle, long time no see. How's it been? Still in Andro?
And Lat's right about the choose your lifestyle thing. I spent 2 years telling myself "liking naked boys doesn't mean I'm gay". Although, it is a choice to accept it, is it really an option not to? Do black people put on white make up or criticized for "choosing" to be black -Micheal Jackson not included-? If your a naturally born leader, do you go around doing what everyone tells you? If your a math genius, would you get an art degree?
On a lighter note, anyone watch Queer as Folk? I started watching the US version online recently, and I'm loving it lol. It's hilarious how they protray the stereotypes between gay/lesbien/straight people. Even funnier is seeing all the old flip cell phones ![]()
One of my buds "came out to his parents his dad didn't care his mom freaked saying where did she go wrong you never can tell but after a year things settled down and they are fine with it they are your parents they will love you anyways
Dimpel, you're insensitive and blind for subtility ![]()
"2 of ur friends know it. And all people in ic. wow.. i mean. ic is more important to u then real life?"
not necessarily, but consider it as a psychological testcase.. It's easier to get rid of a silly game on a server and get rid of pieces of text we all are to eachother than people you have to deal with on a daily basis.
"Not everyone want to know who u really are and u decide who u want to know. so why make it official that u search friends? yikes i mean. its like i would make a posting and say that nobody really know me and i need to change it, because i dont find real friends? why u want that`?"
That's a complete misunderstanding of it. It doesn't mean he has real friends in his real life, explanation above..
Personally i think all men that are gay are confused and have psychological problems. There's nothing sexy about another man ... his hair ... his muscles ... his stench ... nothing, i find it rather sick to even picture such a think, it should be viewed as a crime against humanity.
And posting on IC that your gay, is even more confusing ... like dimpel said all we care about is if your a good player or not, not what your sexual preference is .. i mean who cares?
I think you should talk with a counselor about this situation, because as i previously stated if you produce testosterone and like even more testosterone over estrogen .... something is messed up in your head and you should seek professional help.
~ Cloud
You're entitled to your own views, Cloud... just as much as I'm now entitled to consider you a narrowminded knuckle head.
Homosexuality isn't a psychological problem and cannot be "solved" through counselling or therapy. And it is awfully arrogant of you to think that just because the idea of you being with another man is repugnant, doesn't mean homosexuality is totally wrong.
But anyway. There was a rather interesting article on the BBC news website the other day on the subject of homosexuality. A group of medial scientists conducted some brain scans and tests on some homosexual men and woman, and also on straight men and women. The results are interesting - apparently, homosexuality is quite possibly something you are born with. ![]()
Oh, as for him coming out on here... Well, this may sound strange but during my playing days I made a whole host of good friends. Most I've met in real life and a couple have been really supportive of me during some terribly dark days. Just because this is the internet, and just because you are sitting behind a screen, reading pixels off of a screen, doesn't mean that we're all meaningless drones, incapable of building relationships and supporting our fellow man.
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