To start out (and not pretending this be the way to do it, mods have the last word)
my family crew in PW70
-Teddy
-Bista
-Juholt
-DL
-Meija
-Etronia
-RS Dream
any other leader that chose to stay in fam posts his crew, and the ones who dont wanted to stay in fam start their a leader list with 0 people.
So we 1st get a list of possible leaders (some with their previous crew, others with 0 crew)
Then next we create a player pool this way:
Players apply to a leader's list,
-those who were part of the previous crew and choose to stay in the fam are instantly placed with their previous leader (as it's stay in the fam option). The leader cannot refuse to receive them in this case.
-those who were not part of the previous crew but applied in the list are then chosen by the leader
-the players not chosen go to a player pool, and any leader is allowed to pick only 1 player from this common pool
-the leftover spots (if any) are filled with random players
This way the families will be formed by old crew who wanted to stay in fam plus new crew who chose to play with that leader, and finally the leader can draft 1 player from the common pool (if the chosen player says no then the spot goes to a random)
It is a "stay-in-fam" mixed with "reversed-drafting" (players decide where they want to be, not the other way) and finally 1 draft (not forced).