No such thing as a non-destructible war. Thats just stupid...nowadays families want the following in a war if they lose:
1. To pay as little planets as they can possibly do (they whine if it is over like 15-20%)
2. Not lose infra during the war
3. basically get out of the war without taking an actual loss other than pride.
I'm sorry, but the WHOLE point of warring a family is first to gain planets, and secondly knock the fam you just fought down the ranks enough so you wont have to deal with them again. It is to try and either move up ranks or to ensure you win.
Banker raids are vital to making fams want to quit fighting you. And they are extremely effective if done properly.
Screw your "non-destructive" hippy crap
Solis - #7872