hmmm... could it be that nobody knows if you are at war with another family as long as nothing is posted in uni news about it? you can avoid being attacked by multiple families at once if you post your wars in uni news. i cannot find a single thread about your wars. as well 62 explained why they attacked you.
I wonder why 77 and 58 attacked you guys. maybe they didnt know about your wars?

as well it seems your war against 64 is finished.

I would recommend that you just ask the attacking families for a nap or have you tried this already? Diplomacy as well is an important factor in IC.