Ithaca:
I received a message from your leader asking for PNAP for 50 planets.
I sent back a message within 3 ticks: No, wouldn't be enough.
Your allies leader sent me a message about PNAP.
I responded and we visited a while. I said no.
Snailex sent a message to the rest of my family, and not me, that said:
"we offered 50, you never responded, now we offer 25 for a PNAP and will nuke and war you"
I was told, and replied to the message i didn't get: "Good. Lets play ball then, because that is no where near acceptable."
You sent me a message 10 hours ago - which i responded to - and you went MIA 
Once I got online again, I had another offer - which I also rejected 
Where in there do I refuse to answer anything? I've responded to a message from your leader - who never sent anything back. A message from your allies. A message and an agent jump from snailex - who never responded either. And a message from you - and we're chatting back and forth.
Seems I've done plenty
Responding to messages I didn't even get AND your allies, not to mention you and your leader 