I think the main problem here is that everyone has an opinion and everyone wants their say in said opinion. That is, in the US. Now, people with like minded thoughts gather and agree and they band together and force their opinion on the rest of the country because they can. Why not? Radicals are like that. Conservatives are like that. It's the people who are lukewarm in the debates that don't want to enforce their opinions but rather, merely suggest them.
I am a pro-life person, however, I'm also pro-choice. For me it's all dependent on situation. I sway either way. I'm a person that's like that, as it's all dependent on what I feel like that day and what's been going on around me. It's nice being a fickle individual.
That said, abortion is tricky because the questions we ALL should ask are, when you abort a fetus, does the fetus feel? Does it react? Does it move? Living things feel. A plant feels when it is cut, a tree feels when it creates fruit, a dog feels when it is hit by it's master or set on fire, or burned with acid (which those people should have the same done to them). Understandably, there are arguments, but then the question you should ask is, if you're arguing for the right to abort a fetus...would you abort your own fetus? say you found yourself with child on 7 different occasions...would you abort them? would you let someone stick something into your vagina and kill something?
another approach would be, what would you rather choose? an apple or starfruit? an apple is sweet, while a starfruit is sour. They are both healthy.
Awhile ago I mentioned something in the forums here, and it was satirical, but it held value. People who abort fetuses should be forced, by the government, to hold on the that fetus and to care for it for 3 months. Just like they would were it born. Mind you, I'm talking about the people who are 18 and younger who have sex and abort to avoid screwing themselves over. They should feed it, nurture it, HOLD it, and feel the child that will never breathe because of a decision they made that they can never go back and undo. It's a decision they will have to live with the rest of their lives. If the mother doesn't care then they don't deserve to have children and should be made sterile or have their tubes tied. Cause if they had children, they'd be an abomination to society. If the mother cared, then they'd be bawling like a little girl cause of the stupidity they just went through.
Remember, their choice, their action, their fault. The reason may lie with the parents or the community or the culture or the friends or family or even boyfriend, but the end result is always the choice of the girl who went to do the abortion.