Kemp,
Yes, you are putting words in my mouth, and you ought to apologize. Secondly, nothing I said implies that women are less intelligent or responsible than men. It is an acknowledgment that women are socialized to put the needs of others above their own, the social reality that many men actively manipulate and defraud women to get laid at any cost, and that women have sex they don't want to have as a way to maintain relationships, end a man's whining, or because they feel threatened by implied threats. If you consider that as meaning women are somehow inept or less responsible, then shame on you and we have nothing further to discuss on the topic.
As an example of the social reality women put up with, sex is thought of as intercourse. Intercourse isn't usually as pleasurable to women as it is for men, yet the aggregate behavior of men is to only rub a woman's clitoris until she's wet. We call it "foreplay." And, if a woman intended to just cuddle and give the man a handjob while he rubbed her clitoris, well, she'll soon find out by society how stupid she was to "lead him on." Don't even pretend women have equal bargaining power when it comes to sex. They're doing it on men's terms most of the time. Yet, men wonder why women often lose interest in sex sometime after marriage and children. Well duh! It starts becoming a boring chore for them.
Also, it is more risky for women to have sex than men. Only women can become pregnant, and women are more likely to contract an STI by an infected partner than a man is. Thus, it is an ethical obligation for men to compensate women for that risk. And, if I had a girlfriend, yes, I would either pay for condoms or her birth control, and shame on men who believe birth control is a woman's problem.
So yes, men are more responsible for the transmission of STIs and unwanted pregnancies than women are. Women have a disadvantage at the bargaining table, largely because of our still backward culture. It has nothing to do with women's intellectual capacities. And, the debates of these other social issues, frankly only exist because men act as though they are entitled to use women's bodies, and our culture disempowers women's sexual agency.